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Notes from Kimberly Lewis |
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Hello,
I’d like to take a few minutes and introduce my family, our two
wonderful little PPL ponies, and myself! My name is Kim Lewis and I am the
Community Director for Youngstown and the surrounding areas. I became
familiar with Personal Ponies about four years ago while searching the
internet for a therapeutic riding center better suited for my daughter’s
needs. One visit to their site and I was hooked. The following year we
received our ponies, Thunder and Lightning, and life hasn’t been the
same. It’s not always “sunshine and roses”, but when we are with the
ponies, nothing else matters! I’ve
been involved with animals for as long as I can remember. Our home was
never without one kind of animal or another, and that suited me just fine.
I learned about life, love, and death through these beautiful creatures,
and to this day I know where to go for a good cry or to share my deepest
secrets. Animals have always made my world a better place, so when my
first child was born with a wide spectrum of developmental disorders, she
was surrounded and supported by not only her loving family, but our
menagerie of critters, as well. The
animals have always been drawn to her, but my Thoroughbred mare took a
matriarchal approach when Kaitlin was concerned! Before my daughter was
able to walk, if she was the least bit upset this horse would put her
rather large nose right in front of her until she’d reach for her
nostrils. As the little hands came up, my mare would release a long,
gentle stream of warm air that could bring instant calm to a crying child.
As Kaitlin got older and stronger, she stood patiently for belly and knee
brushing and carried my daughter on her back with such care that even I
was amazed. If only she were smaller, as Kaitlin loved to wrap her arms
around a leg and give her “hugs”. A few months later we found Personal
Ponies! I
had looked at several ponies in the past year, hoping to find one gentle
enough for Kaitlin to hang all over, let alone her new little sister, but
the pickings were slim. This was an answer to a prayer! I mentioned PPL to
a friend who ran the boarding stable where I kept my other horses, and she
felt that her son could also benefit from these wonderful ponies, so we
began the application process. Our ponies arrived later that year, and
although the other family moved away, Thunder and Lightning keep on
bringing joy into our lives. Differently-abled
is a good term to describe Kaitlin. She is delayed in all areas of
development, with speech, motor skills, and cognitive function being the
most severe. Watching her struggle to meet a milestone was at times
heartbreaking; yet watching her younger sister meet them and then pass
Kaitlin by was even harder. Kaitlin grew more and more frustrated with
herself as she became aware of her differences, and Dannah grew more
resentful of the “special” treatment her sister received; therapeutic
riding lessons, private speech, occupational and physical therapy, doctor
appointments, special meals, extra praise…and who could blame her? But
the day these two ponies stepped off the trailer, one for each child
(since they try to place them in pairs), hearts began to heal. Kaitlin has
gained so much self-confidence through caring for her pony, and her speech
has improved since she just has to tell everyone about them! Her muscles
have grown stronger from “walking” Lightning all over the place and
making him walk when he thinks he’d rather eat, and her “hugs” are
never too strong. In fact, this little guy actually hugs her back! Dannah
has a new best friend in Thunder. She loves to whisper in his ear and give
him kisses. He stands so still as she brushes him, and even tolerates the
pink ribbons she loves to clip in his mane. Because our ponies are on the
“large” side, both girls benefit from being able to ride them around
with helmets and supervision, of course! My
husband and I have been married for nine years, and although he doesn’t
actively participate in our “pony times” he supports us 100%. He talks
about the changes in the girls to anyone who will listen and has invited
several of his friends to visit with the ponies. He’s our rock, and we
appreciate all that he does for us so that we can have our “pony
time.” It just wouldn’t be possible without him! As
you can see, we really enjoy and have benefited tremendously from our
fuzzy little trolls. Won’t you help us spread the word? I am also in
need of some volunteers who are interested in the physical as well as the
public end of promoting these special guys. The ponies need several more
hours of “hands on” work before going out into the public, and I’d
like to have them Delta certified for the extra insurance. Anyone who
might be interested, please contact me! Let’s start spreading some pony
smiles in Ohio! Hugs to all!
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